New Mom’s Group Starting in Rockridge

In need of a community, support or just want to get out of the house with your baby? Enroll in a new moms group!

Oakland Mom2Mom’s group is starting this Tuesday in Rockridge and has a few openings left. The group is 6 weeks from 10-12 on Tuesday mornings. It is a fantastic group for new moms to get support during those challenging first weeks and months. The group is for moms & babies and focuses on the joys, challenges & many humorous moments of this major life transition.

Please share the information with any interested friends as well!

Details can be found at www.oaklandmom2mom.com
or contact Raine Dougan, rainedougan@gmail.com.

A Dreamy Preschool Program

If I could, I’d hop a plane and take all the little ones I know to this program in Ireland. What a name, Little Moo Moos!

Life On The Farm

A PLAYSCHOOL in a unique setting on a working dairy farm in St Margaret’s has won an award for the quality of the service it provides to its pre-schoolers.

Little Moo Moos Playschool is set on a working dairy farm. Catherine Dwyer and her husband, farmer Rory, are behind the venture and have an ongoing commitment to incorporate different aspects of farm life into the learning experiences of the children at the playschool.

Catherine told the Fingal Independent: ‘The school’s natural environment provides a rich source of learning, around which a carefully considered play-based emergent and Montessori curriculum, underpinned by Aistear has been developed.

‘Children spend more than 75% of their time outdoors feeding animals, visiting the farm, planting vegetables, going down the fields on adventures and playing.’

Explaining the philosophy of Little Moo Moos, Catherine said: ‘The child is at the centre of the learning process, where their individual needs and interests are nurtured to grow and blossom.

‘Because Little Moo Moos is concerned with the provision of the highest quality service, we are delighted to be recipients of ‘The Siolta Quality Award.’

She explained: ‘Since completing the Siolta programme, our service sees ‘quality’ as an ongoing process where we are constantly thinking and reflecting on how to improve on our provision.

‘To us, quality means putting the children first where their rights, needs and interests are of paramount consideration.’

On receiving the award, the playschool was quick to thank the most important players in all of this, the children themselves and a letter went out to parents saying: ‘Without your children, we wouldn’t have achieved our highest award to date.’

The Siolta Quality Assurance Programme (QAP) is the national quality Framework for early childhood care and education.

This programme was developed by the Centre for Early Childhood Development and Education of behalf of the Department of Education & Skills, following consultation with more than fifty diverse organisations representing childcare workers, teachers, parents, policy workers, researchers to name but a few.

The award recognizes the high level of quality and practice maintained in Little Moo Moos Playschool.

Here is the article link: http://www.independent.ie/regionals/fingalindependent/lifestyle/life-on-the-farm-29264612.html

In Response to the Latest DSM 5 and CDC Report

I, like the author of this blog post, have many issues with the focus placed on treating childhood mental health when there is so much that we could be doing to prevent these disorders if we only prioritize families.

The research is quite clear that 0 to 3 years of age are our formative years, the foundation for our entire life. We have to start treating early childhood development with the respect and honor it deserves. We have to educate, nurture and support families during pregnancy and as their children grow, taking responsibility as a society to look out for children and lend a helping hand when able. We have to demand employers give parents longer parental leave (with pay and job security) to bond with their babies, give parents ‘permission’ to put their children before their careers and flexibility in the work place. We need employers all the way up to the President to understand that our family comes first!

I feel this is our responsibility to our children and future generations.

“To CDC on children’s mental health: consider office of homeland attachment security

Posted by Claudia M Gold  May 16, 2013 10:04 PM

Change is in the air for children’s mental health care. The latest CDC (Center for Disease Control) special supplement to the MMWR (morbidity and mortality weekly report) is titled Mental Health Surveilance Among Children-United States 2005-2011. The report overview states:

Approximately $247 billion is spent each year on children’s mental health.  The mental health of children is critical to their overall health as children and as they grow into adults.

The report summary concludes:

More comprehensive surveillance is needed to develop a public health approach that will both help prevent mental disorders and promote mental health among children.

This report coincides with both the release of DSM (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders) 5, and a statement by the director of the NIMH (National Institute of Mental Health) that research funding would not be guided by DSM diagnoses, and that a new paradigm of mental health care is needed.

The time has come to recognize the overwhelming evidence regarding the importance of early relationships in healthy emotional development. The answer to the problem posed in the CDC report is in: invest in early childhood -from newborn to three- to prevent mental health disorders and promote mental health.

A huge part of this evidence comes from the CDC itself, with the ACES study, showing long-term negative impact on both physical and emotional health of a range of adverse childhood experiences.  An abundance of research coming from the discipline of infant mental health provides a more nuanced view of this issue.

 When parents are supported and valued by society, they are able to be fully present with their children, in turn helping to grow healthy brains. Children who grow up in an attuned caregiving environment are flexible, resilient, and empathic.  In contrast, when children experience toxic stress, or stress in the absence of a safe, secure caregiving relationship, the parts of their brains responsible for emotional regulation do not develop normally. What results are symptoms that are then labeled “mental illness.”
I heard this phrase “office of homeland security of attachment” from Gerard Costa, director of the Center for Autism and Early Childhood Mental Health at Montclair State University. I was speaking at the 2nd annual Todd Ouida Children’s Foundation Conference with the wonderful title: The Magic in Moments: Patterns of Early Relationships that Create Resilient Individuals and Peaceful Societies. While the phrase is meant to be humorous, the idea behind it is very serious.
Our country is seriously lagging behind other countries in the care and attention we give to young children and their parents, with potentially devastating effects. A special government organization to take on this task would address this problem with the attention it deserves. This does not mean that the government has a role in parenting, which is a private, individual experience. Rather, such an organization could address such things as:

– parental leave policy
– comprehensive screening and treatment for perinatal emotional complications including depression and anxiety
– education of a workforce trained in working with young children and families
–  high quality child care, including supervision for child care workers
Attending to early caregiving relationships will move us toward the goal of creating peaceful societies. Given that $247 billion is spent a year on children’s mental health, focusing on early childhood is not only the right thing to do, it is also a worthwhile investment.

 

Originally published on the blog Child in Mind.”

East Bay Dads Group forming

I am always searching for more ways to support the dads out there. If you come across any new groups, classes, etc. please let me know so I can post it. If you search under Dads on my blog, you will also find more resources.

Here is a new East Bay Dad’s group that is being coordinated by Tim Clarke.

“Hi All,

While some of you may know me, most do not. My name is Tim Clarke and I
left the workplace in July of 2012 to be a full-time stay-at-home dad since
July 2012. I have 2 boys ages 3 1/2 and 1. I know that there are more of
you out there, and thought it might be sort of an interesting experiment to
see if others would be interested in seeing how “the other half lives.” I
just read a funny email that said there was a dad out there who feels that
his wife can’t leave the house without tripping over a mom’s group, but
there are no groups for dads. Interestingly, I had to try several
iterations of the Group Name before I found one that wasn’t already in use
by Google, so somebody out there is doing something.

This group is being created to support potential interest for dads living in
and around the East Bay for discussion, advice, meetups, and general overall
guy parenting stuff ;). While the immediate goal is to serve stay at home
dads, it is by no means intended to exclude any dads in the East Bay
interested in joining the conversation.

Tell your friends, tell your neighbors, and let’s see what happens!

Here is the email address for the group:
ebdadsgroup@googlegroups.com

And here is the URL
https://groups.google.com/d/forum/ebdadsgroup

I’ll also include a tiny URL for the owner contact (me) – please let me know
if you or someone you know would like an invite sent.

http://tinyurl.com/cfg4v5c

Thanks,
Tim”